Joko’s Personal Assistance - As Quoted

Personal Assistance at the End of Life

When someone you love is dying, you are asked to balance family, career, and lifestyle against the emotional and physical toll of caregiving.

We aren’t taught about the death and dying process (or what comes after), and this means overwhelm, decision making under pressure, and sometimes family conflict.

There’s too much to do and no energy to do it, which is why I step in - so you don’t have to handle every detail on your own.

I work as a Personal Assistant when someone is dying, because I believe women are not meant to do caregiving alone.

My work is balanced between the practical and the sacred.

Here is a short list of what my services may include:

Respite Care so you can take a break

Light cleaning so your bathroom and kitchen stay comfortable and functional.

Basic Pet Care

Grocery Shopping

Active listening - to the family and the dying person.

Legacy documentation - audio stories, letter writing, Remento or StoryCorps etc.

Educate on dying process and/or provide resources for self-study

“Set and Setting” discussion and sacred-space creation. What can we do to help our mindset, and create an appropriate and meaningful setting for someone to spend their final days?

Companionship - Talking. Tea. Laughter. Walks. etc.

Professional communication facilitation between you and a funeral home, cemetery or other death care provider.

Help you create and manage your list of to-dos, including things you may never think of.

Eulogy and Obituary writing.

End-of-Life event planning - funeral, celebration of life, party, wake or any meaningful event that honors your person.

MAiD preparation and day-of support.

After death - Bathing and dressing of your loved one and sitting vigil

Officiant/Celebrant services

I am a grief support specialist, death doula, and career funeral professional with 26 years of experience. I know this landscape well, the practical details, the emotional rollercoaster, the way you still need support when the services are over.

I am not afraid of the dying, and I am not afraid of your grief. Whether you need structure, rest, clarity, or just someone beside you, I can help.

Pricing depends on days, hours, and travel, and there is also a virtual option. Please contact me below to discuss how I might best serve you, or to schedule your 30 minute complementary discovery call.

Pricing starts at $295 for one hour of consultation and a two page PDF with bullet point guidance for personal use.

Ceremony Design and Planning support is priced at $795

On average for comprehensive in-person help before, during, and after a death, clients can expect to pay $3500.

I am also available for exclusive, in-home care at 4 week intervals. Contact me to discuss this option. Due to the nature of this service, I am only able to support 4 families each year with this service.